Twelve days later, possibly as the letter
from Solomon Boss was being read
by Mrs. Boss on the couple’s small farm at Cooper heights,
Georgia, 20 miles south of Chattanooga, C.C. Boss died in a
skirmish between Confederate and Union forces near Sweetwater.
During
the War Between States, the commanding
officer of those paying the supreme sacrifice would write a
consoling letter to the next of kin. The
following is the letter Mrs. Boss received from her husband’s
commanding officer:
Hd. O 6 th GA. Cavalry
Near Sweetwater, Tenn.
October 25, 1863
Mrs. Emily Boss:
Dear Madam:
It is my melancholy duty to inform you of the
death of your husband Mr. Solomon Boss, who was killed by a
shell on the 20th last, at the fight at Philadelphia Monroe
Co. Tenn. We had your husband buried as decently as circumstances
would permit, and we know the spot where he now lies. If
I could offer you a word of consolation I would now do so.
Your husband was a good and kind hearted man, and
had the esteem of the whole company, both the officers and
the men. You no doubt feel deeply his loss, but you should
remember that your loss is his eternal gain, for I believe
he was a Christian. I was glad to know he was a Baptist the
same faith to which I hold. I know your heart will bleed for
our husband but let me say to you, it is the lot of man to
die and we have this consolation, when our friends die and
go to rest, we can not bring them back again, but we can go
to them. Let me encourage you to press for the mark of the
prize of the High Calling as it is in Christ Jesus.
He had $70.15 in his pocket, I also ad his saddle
bags and clothes sold at auction because we could not carry
them, which brought $17.95 making in all $88.10 which I have
now in my possession subject to your orders or I will send
it to you by the first chance. I have made no disposition of
his horse yet, I will have him cared for and send him to you
as soon as I can, or you can send and get him. There will be
some more money due you the amount of which I don’t know.
I do not know you personally but be assured of one
thing, you have my warmest sympathy for the loss of your husband.
Hoping the Lord will smile upon you and your children.
Your true friend.
Lieut. H. W. Dean
P.S. He had a small pistol which he lost.
Lieut. H. W. Dean
Send Mrs. Singleterry’s letter to her which
you will find enclosed within.
H. W. D.
A note from the family:
We would like to know if you know where we might find
the grave location of S.S. Boss (From GA) who was killed
during the skirmish at Philadelphia TN in October 1863.?
We would like to write to Washington and have a Civil War
marker placed on his grave. While the letter above
says that his commanding officer knew where S.S. Boss was
buried, we do not. Any help in locating this grave
would be greatly appreciated. Please email
us if you
have any information that might help us in our search. Thank
you!
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