In Memoriam

From a funeral sermon in honor of Mr. James WOOD, preached at Mt. Bethany Church, Hardeman county, Tenn., May the 20th, 1867 by Rev. W. H. THOMPSON, pastor.

In conclusion Brethren, we have a pleasing and, at the same time, a difficult duty to perform. To speak with entire truthfulness of one whom we have so well-known, and so sincerely admired, is by no means as easy task. The custom of the pulpit in magnifying the virtues of the dead, or ascribing to them qualities which they never possessed while living, is well-known. Perhaps this is a virtuous practice, one of the redeeming features of our fallen nature; but it is a practice with which our departed brother had little sympathy. Honesty was a cardinal virtue with him, while living, and could he speak to us this morning he would, no doubt, demand that we deal honestly with his memory now that he is dead. This we shall aim to do.

As a man he was not unlike others whom we have known – others whom we still know. Those elements of character which inspire confidence among men, make friends of the community and insure success in life, he possessed in a high degree. But these were not his best qualities. Honesty, energy, industry, business capacity, much as they may do for us in this life, furnish no passport to the life that is to come. We may have friends here and be friendless there. We may heap up wealth in this world and be poor and poverty-stricken in the next. But this, while it is true of multitudes who live and die in our midst, is not the record of him whose memory rises fresh in our hearts this day. To be rich in faith and good works was his first desire, and to the accomplishment of this object were his best efforts directed. He was a Christian man – a Christian in principle – a Christian in spirit – a Christian in practice. He first took upon himself the obligations of Christianity in February, 1840, under the ministry of the Rev. Samuel WILLIAMSON. In November, 1850, he was elected deacon in this Church, and on the eleventh day of the same month, 1854, he was chosen and ordained to the office of Ruling Elder.

As a Christian man he was ever humble, watchful and consistent. His views of truth were those usually termed Calvanistic. He received, in full, the great doctrines of grace through a crucified Redeemer. To be found in Him, not having His own righteousness, which was of the law, but that which is through the faith of God, was his constant desire, his most earnest prayer. Hence his religion became eminently practical. For those theories and speculations which minister nothing to the growth of piety, and bring no comfort to the soul, he had little use. He was not a Churchman – not a Sectarian – but a Christian. He regarded himself as belonging to Christ. He received in its fullest and broadest sense, the Scripture doctrine of Christian amity. The members of Christ’s body he regarded as one, even as the Father and Son are one. He loved all his Saviour loved, wherever found and by whatever name called.

For those who were in need of sympathy he had a warm heart; to such as were in want he extended an open hand. To plead before him the cause of the needy, and urge a contribution, was wholly unnecessary. A simple statement of facts was the most direct way to his heart. He was a cheerful giver. He loved to give. He found comfort and joy in giving as the Lord had prospered him. To contribute of his substance for the advancement of Christ’s cause he regarded, not so much a duty, as a privilege. He had no sympathy with that feeling which is sometimes found among professed Christians, that the Church is to be ruined by giving, and that an agent for a benevolent object is a mere beggar, hanging upon her skirts to steal away the children’s bread and cast it to the dogs. No, he rather regarded them as Christ’s messengers, sent to confer a favor upon His people by permitting each one to take part in His work. He recognized the fact that the silver and the gold are the Lord’s though in the hands of men, and that Christ as the great proprietor of all things, has a right, when He will, and by whom He will, to draw on his own Treasury to promote the comfort of His suffering children, or to send the Gospel to those who sit in darkness. This principle, strong in life, he carried with him even to the gates of death, only ceasing to give when he ceased to live. The last money that he handled was given to one of the Boards of that Church which he so tenderly loved and with which he so deeply sympathized in her calamity and deep poverty.

As an officer in the Church, his services were invaluable. He was always in his place, unless providentially detained, and was there to do his duty. Though quiet and retiring in his disposition, having little to say, yet he was quick to perceive the right and prompt in execution. He hesitated not at difficulties, he feared no danger, he shrunk from no responsibility. What Christ and his cause demanded he was ever ready to do, leaving consequences with im. Self and self-interest disappeared before the higher and nobler impulses of his soul. It is right was the word with which he overcame all difficulties, and crushed all opposition, and when his position was taken the question was decided. He was no schemer. Always open and honest, he carried his points by the simple power of truth and his clear convictions of right. No one could read that mild, subdued, earnest countenance and feel that it was possible for him, intentionally, to injure any human being. He could bear injuries; he inflicted none. He could make sacrifices; he never demanded them of others, and how often his own feelings were laid upon the altar to avoid wounding persons who were less entitled to sympathy than himself. Those best know who served with him most intimately. But it was not alone in the session room and in the business of the Church that his influence was felt. It pervaded the whole congregation. No one could look to the seat, where he invariably sat, without feeling that there was, at least, one heart interested. It mattered little who was in the pulpit; his countenance always told that he had found something worth hearing. He never seemed to listen as a critic, but as one hungrying and thirsting for the bread and the water of life, and to him has the preacher often been indebted for a new and holier impulse in his work. There was an inspiration in that look which was irresistible. Not to feel it was impossible. To yield to it was to throw something of the same spirit into the hearts of others. In this way, unconsciously, he became as much the preacher as the hearer, and in this way, though dead he yet speaketh. Often, even now, we seem to see him again, and hear the soft whispers of his heart bidding us labor and be strong. But he is not there. He has passed away. His seat is vacant. He has gone to his rest and his works do follow him. For him to live was Christ; he now knows the gain of dying. “To live is Christ; to die is gain.”

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 15 June 1867, Page 1. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

 

Caroline R. MCMAHON, wife of Col. John H. MCMAHON, died in Memphis last Monday night (27 May 1867).

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 01 June 1867, Page 3. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

Obituary

George M. BROGDEN, one of our best citizens died on the 13th of April, at his own residence, in Hardeman county, Tenn. His life has been one of exemplification, of tried veracity and unflinching integrity. As a neighbor he was regarded by them who know him best as number one, always generous, kind, and ready to help in time of need; noted for this honesty and punctuality in all business matters. No man stands higher in the estimation of his fellow citizens for honesty than George A. BROGDEN – plain, unsophisticated gentleman who lived by principle, without any particular formula or etiquette, with manners, blunt and pure. Brother BROGDEN professed religion many years ago, and strictly adhered to its sublime principles until the day of his death; a regular attendant at church, and for two months before his death he took more than usual interest in behalf of the cause of God, and I can truthfully say the Methodist branch of God’s church on earth has lost a true, loyal and faithful member. He left many warm-hearted friends behind who sincerely, mourn his departure from time, and who also offer their condolence to his sorrowing widow. He lived his allotted time, or nearly so, upon earth, upwards of sixty years old at his demise, serving his day and generation with usefulness, almost without spot or blemish. He has gone to the good man’s home in the skies, where the wicked cease from troubling and the weary are at rest, and can sweetly sing. I hope to meet the honest, faithful man of God in heaven. May heaven smile upon his widow.

J. H. GARRETT
May 20, 1867

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 25 May 1867, Page 3. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

 

Obituary

Thomas SPRINGFIELD, an old and honored citizen of Hardeman county, died on the 18th of April 1867 in the 81st year of his age. He was a man of great energy, possessing traits of industry, perseverance and economy which enabled him to amass an ample fortune. He lived to see his family into the third generation – numerous and highly respectable – many of them true and loyal members of the Methodist Church. He sustained the reputation of a gentleman through life, a kind neighbor, feeling master, generous friend, and a noble patriot; a filial father and an affectionate husband, and true in all the business of life. He professed religion during his illness, and gave evidence of a brighter and a better mode of existence than the present. He appealed to the guileless Savior for help, and claimed deliverance through his glorious expiation made for the sins of all men. Expressions fell from his trembling lips which were cheering to his weeping children, and enhanced the glorious anticipation of meeting him in the pure sainted heaven above, to sing the ultimatum of eternal praise to God.

J. H. GARRETT

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 04 May 1867, Page 3. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

Unfortunate:

George BOWERS, well-known in the neighborhood of New Castle, while attempting to cross a small but exceedingly swift stream, a few miles south of the above mentioned village, a few days since, was unfortunately drowned. His remains were committed to the grave on last Sunday evening.

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 09 March 1867, Page 3. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

Died 0n Wednesday morning, 20th February 1867, at 2-1/2 o’clock, Mary Fagg GRAY, aged two years, only child of the Rev. W. C. and M. L. GRAY.

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 23 Feb. 1867, Page 3. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

At her residence in this place, on Thursday, January 24, Miss Ann Eliza FITZHUGH, aged 63 years. Deceased was a native of Virginia, but had been a resident of this county for many years. She was highly esteemed by those who knew her, and noted for her charity and uniform kindness to all. Her mourning relatives and friends have the sympathy of this community.

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 26 Jan. 1867, Page 2. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

Departed this life at his residence, on the 5th February 1867, Mr. James WOOD, in the seventieth year of his age. At half past four in the evening he calmly breathed his last – exhibiting at the near approach of death, as he had throughout the period of his long and painful illness, the placid resignation, the uncomplaining patience and calm trust in God of the good man and steadfast christian – retaining almost to the last his clear intelligence, and evincing even then, a thoughtful regard for the welfare of others, and that rare sense of justice characteristic of him, and so touchingly suggestive of the cool judgement and the upright heart. To those who were acquainted with the estimable deceased, it were needless to recount his manifold virtue; to those who are mourning him the irreparable loss of a husband, a father, a neighbor or a friend, he has left the rich legacy of a faultless example, together with the priceless consolation that if they prove themselves but faithful to his dying advice, they may be permitted soon to meet with him again in that “better land” and reunite with him there in the endless rest which remaineth for the people of God.

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 09 Feb. 1867, Page 2. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

Died on the morning of the 29th at Dunlap Springs (three miles from this place) of typhoid pneumonia after an illness of two weeks, Mr. James WEBB. Mr. WEBB was one of the first settlers of Hardeman county, and was well and favorably known to many of our citizens. In 1855 he removed to Arkansas, where he resided until the close of the war, when he returned to Hardeman to spend his few remaining days among his relations and old friends. Mr. WEBB leaves a large circle of friends and relatives to mourn his loss.

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 03 Nov. 1866, Page 2. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.

At his residence in this county, on the 6th, Benjamin WILKES, aged 78 years. Deceased was a lieutenant in the army under General Andrew Jackson, and participated in many hard fought battles. He leaves a wife and eight children and many relatives and friends to mourn his loss. In his riper years he was a devote follower of the Savior and faithful member of the Baptist church.

The Bolivar bulletin. (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.), 22 Sept. 1866, Page 2. Chronicling America: Historic American Newspapers. Lib. of Congress.