Transcribed by Pat Stubbs
June 29, 1950
* CAL’S COLUMN *
We come to you this week in sadness. However, in view of the levity, the nonsense and funny things of
the last two or three articles, we believe that we may be indulged while we
write some of the things that are in our heart.
On Nov. 16, 1902, our
father and mother, Thomas Morgan (Dopher) and Marietta Ballou Gregory, became
the parents of their fifth daughter.
She was not a very pretty baby, but was sweet and lovable. Later years brought to her eyes that were
perhaps too large, light, rather stringy, silky hair that soon went into
pigtails.
One of our earliest
recollections of her "little girl" life took place one cold, snowy
day. We boys had a sled; or, as we
called it, a slide. She wanted a
ride. So some of the older children
took her to a little hillside-- and we might add that our father's little farm
was almost all hillside land--in our old worn-out pasture in which horses had
been running a few days before and while the ground was soft from rains. They had left their tracks deep in the muddy
ground and then came a hard freeze, followed later by snow which covered the
ground about an inch or two deep. The
happy little girl was pulled up the hill and then the down trip began. After some speed had been attained, one
runner of the sled struck the hard frozen part of a horse's track; or, rather,
that part left standing by a deep footprint in the ground, and the sled stopped
so suddenly that our sister, Anna, was thrown from the sled with force enough
to hurl her against the frozen ground
She received a cut over one eye and the would bled profusely. We carried her to the house and our mother,
poor, hard-working, patient and kind "mammy," as we called her,
dressed the wound. She was also quite
angry with the older children, who, she thought, were to blame for the
accident, which was to leave a scar over one eye, that remained with her as
long as life lasted. Our mamy faulted
the others severely for the accident, which she said, "may leave my child
with a scar through life." When
Cal looked into the face of his sister Sunday afternoon, June 25th, for the
last time, that scar of more than forty years ago, was still there. But there will be no scars in the
resurrection, we feel sure.
In 1907, Cal went away to
school in Bowling Green. Anna was then
five years old. Somehow, and we do not
know how, she got the idea that she would have to go away to school in Bowling
Green. One day our mother, "Mammy,
" to Cal, found her weeping bitterly.
"What's the matter?" asked her mother. "I
don't want to go to Bolton Green,"replied Anna as she shook with
sobs. She could not say Bowling Green,
but used the word above given.
Many were the incidents of
her early childhood that have come down through the years, riding, as it were,
on the wings of memory. She believed
all that was told her and this is part of the trusting innocence of little
girlhood. One member of the family
apparently took a delight in "tormenting" her and others. He once told her that if she ever put a
boy's hat or cap on her head, she would turn into a boy. She believed this implicitly. After thus preparing the way, the party who
found such a delight in picking at others, then made as if he would place a cap
or hat on her head. Such furious
efforts as the child made, such crying and squalling as she put forth were
perhaps funny to the "tormentor," who had finally to be called down
by a parent; but today long years later and with Anna in a rather early grave,
they bring regrets and in a measure, shame.
On another occasion she was
told by the same party that if she ever let her teeth bump together, all of the
teeth would come out. She believed this
with all the confidence of the trusting child she was. Shortly afterward, our mammy found her in a
flood of tears and naturally she asked, "Now what is the
matter?" The child replied, "I bumped my teeth together." Mammy replied, "You goosey thing, that
will not amount to anything." but
she knew that somebody had been playing with her credulity and had made her believe
this.
Somewhere there is a
picture of the entire group of girls made many years ago. The boys, Cal and Tom, refused to have
anything to do with this picture, esteeming ourselves to be "too
good" perhaps to have a part in the picture. Here Anna appears a very little girl, with big eye and the thin,
silky hair and perhaps rather large mouth of earlier days. We are sorry now that we did not have a part
in the picture and feel rather ashamed that we thought ourselves above being in
the group.
In her school days she soon showed signs of being keen of mind,
alert in thought and possessed of a good memory. She was an obedient child, good to all and seldon ever having a
hard thought toward any other person.
In school her grades were excellent and she did good work, the teacher,
so far as we know, having not one bit of trouble with her. In later school days she became quite adept
in spelling, being the most naturally gifted speller we ever knew. Apparently she "spelled" without
having to even think, the letters in correct order rushing form her lips as
water over stones in the valley. Her
early school days were, in some respects, the happiest of her entire life. Her father and mother were living and
active, all her brothers and sisters were well and healthy, she had a large
group with whom she could play and she did delight in playing the games of
little girls forty years ago. During
this period of time, Mrs. Nora Wilburn, a widowed cousin of our father, moved
to the little log house across the road from our father's home. She had one son, Paul Wilburn, who died last
fall. Here the widowed mother and son
lived in their little log house. One of
Anna's delights was to visit that home and stay until she had to be called back
home. Our mammy found that Anna was
asking for food from Mrs. Wilburn, who was having a hard time and mammy felt
that Anna did not need to ask for food, for we were all well fed. Finally, in a rather exasperated state of
mind, Anna's mother said, "Anna, if I ever hear of your asking Nora for
anything else to eat, I am going to
whip you." Anna knew that these
words were meant and that they would be kept.
But she was smart enough to get around her mother's prohibition. So instead of asking Nora for food, she
said, "Nora, we did not have anything hardly for breakfast this
morning." This bought results and
our mammy did not punish her for this
sign of shrewdness. Anna was then
perhaps six years old. About the same
time, Nora had told Anna and other sisters of ours to keep her eggs gathered up
while she was away from home on a visit.
On her return, Anna said, "Nora, your old hens and roosters have
laid lots of eggs since your left home."
This gave Mrs. Wilburn a laugh that she remembered until she went home
to God not many months ago. We somehow
find some sort of consolation in the thought that the little girl of 40 years
ago and the lonely, widowed mother of a small orphaned boy, are together now in
a fairer and better land, where sin and sorrow and trials and tribulations come
never more.
Lack of space forbids
publishing all we have along this line in this week's paper, so it will be
concluded in a later issue, God willing.
We hope that our readers will not feel that we are being silly or
over-centimental, but our heart is heavy.
After the death of our parents, Anna came into Cal's home and we gave
her the care and love of a daughter.
And she was as a daughter to the writer. So our sorrow is great today in the homegoing of the once happy
child, who laughed and played through childhood's brief morning and then in
later life, went suddenly from those she loved best of all.